30 October 2011

My Giving Birth Story- PART 3

 -the family-
at Rafflesia Medical Centre

Hello dear friends,

I'm here again to update for the part 3 of my giving birth experience.
I guess this might be the last part, I hope so. :) First of all, forgive me for taking such a long time to post for the 3rd part of my delivery story.

And here is the continuation from part 2..

I requested for painkiller 2 times. The nurse said the painkiller should be given 50% for each jab (not sure what was she talking about). Instead she gave me 25% each. However the painkiller seem did not worked at all. I still suffered the pain as at it was. Indeed the painkiller really did not make the pain ease at all.

I couldn't bear any longer. That was what i was thinking at that time. Still, I keep myself positive. I told myself, "I can do this".

Hubby keep whispering to me, "You can do it.." But I don't know how long I could bear with the pain.

The CTG reading increased up to 100. And at one time it stagnant at 100 reading. OMG, i tell you, that was the worst part when it reached 100 and stayed there.

The nurse said, 'Jangan tahan nafas, ko kena bernafas tu.. Tarik nafas'.. I followed her advice.

It was around 10am, Doctor Ramesh finally came to view my condition. He broke my waterbag and examined my cervix. It dilated 2cm. Oh my God, after bearing intense pain, I was dilated 2cm only. Can you imagine that?..

As the waterbag broke, the doctor said the baby defecated.. He found feces in the waterbag. He confronted me and hubby that it was fine. It was still in controlled. The feces still in small portion but obviously it can't be waited for a long time too. It could be dangerous to our baby. Our baby might drown or suffocated.

The doctor viewed my contraction pattern and the baby's heartbeat pattern through the CTG machine and he found out that our baby's heartbeat become slower. He advised us that if the baby's heartbeat decrease to another level or still in weak condition for the next couple hours, we can't wait for the dilation anymore. I have to go for the c-section operation to save our baby's life.

As I heard the doctor said as such, there was something stuck in my mind. I mean what if I have to go for c-section instead after bearing so much pain for the sake of the dilation. All the waiting and pain-bearing will be in vain. 

It was 11.30am. I could not wait any longer. I told my hubby to inform the nurse that I opt for c-section. The reason were, 1st I couldn't bear the pain anymore, 2nd the waiting and pain-bearing will be in vain if I still not dilated for the next hours and the 3rd was to save my baby's life as his heartbeat already in weak condition and he defecated already in my womb.

The nurse asked me if I have really made up mind, and I answered firmly 'Yes' (doii tidak tahan sakit suda bah).. She then gave me a paper, a sort of confirmation document for me to put my signature. 

And at 12.30pm I was sent to operation room. The c-section procedure was done quite fast, at 1 hour period only. Hubby was in the operation room too to witness for the coming of our baby boy to the world. He even took pictures.. :D

The c-section process was painless. I just jabbed with sort of anesthetic at my left hand and at my back. I guess the anesthetist is professional enough. And the rest of the process, I just felt as like someone had touched my tummy. Thank God.. :)

At 1.30pm, I was sent out from operation room. My body shivering, I felt very cold. The nurse said, " badan ko memang begegar tu, itu effect dari ubat bius tu.."  

And the important part in the whole process was I made a right decision to opted for c-section. 

As I reached at my room, one of the nurse told me," nasib baik ko minta operation oh, ko punya baby punya leher suda terlilit sama tali pusat. Terlilit dua kali lagi tu..".. 

I was like, speechless. That was really a shocked news. What if I waited for few hours then? What will happened to my precious baby? Thank GOD.. I was really grateful. Indeed He gave me some sort of courage and guidance to get through to this event.

Okay, that is my giving birth experience. 


To read the 1st part and 2nd part of the story click link below:-


  1. Adui it seems scary hahaa. Nda buli imagine o mcmna la ni future wife sia bila mo deliver suda :D Uisheh.

    Well part 3 paling last kan so congrats on the whole process la, Stella ;)

    And happy Sunday!

  2. Ko opt for c-section pula moi.. Luckily you made a right decision. Tekejut juga bila they said your baby kena lilit oleh tali pusat dia kan. Thank God everything went well during the delivery. :)

    Reading your stories, I really can't wait for my turn! Hehe..

  3. waa..scary, but thank be to God both of u went it thru safely. Teringat my mom's story of giving birth to my bro, natural birth n tali pusat terlilit d leher..my mom bilang mcm rendah tu siling dia nmpk time tu..

  4. Lucky to your baby,last time during my sister ones all the doctor and nurse makan KFC lagi time my sister was crying2x minta C-Section. Last2x time baby keluar terus kena blood infection. Nasib baby strong.Praise the lord ooOo. Tapi kami memang tidak puas hati sebab doctor yang sepatutnya ada adalah yang pakar ni doctor practical. Mahu check dilation pun dia boleh suruh midwife,dia cakap dia tidak pandai.Stick yang suppose to kasih pecah di waterbag pun boleh jatuh2x di lantai terus dia tidak tukar baru dia pakai benda yang sama.Kalau ikut hati memang mahu saman.

  5. BB sia pun terlilit 2 kali sd tu tali pusat d leher. Nasib baik jg ko opt for C-sect, kalau tdk tercekik bb tm kluar.

  6. Wah...at last the final part...yup, thank God you didn't wait long for c-sec...me also c-sec sebab CTG reading for baby tu x cantik...rupanya laluan keluar dia di sekat oleh tali pusat tapi tidak melilit di leher la...

  7. Wahhhh :) siok sya baca :) Thank God for His guidance :) God bless you and baby :) nasib ko cepat2 ooo kan :) nervous btul sya baca story ko...

  8. Armstrong:
    Ba ready2 la ko nnti hihihi.. Btw, tq for reading..

    Ya nasib jg sya minta c-sec. Terlilit 2 kali lg tu, sya pun terkejut.. Btw, cant wait urs pla hihihi

    bikin takut jg mom ko ckp gitu.. Dia deliver normal ka... Ya thnk God both us safe.. :)

    Ada jg doctor gitu. Hospital mana tu? Teruk jg tu doctor, tdk ikut etika doctor langsung. Patut kamu saman tu...

    ya ka sherol? So ko deliver c- sec jg la kan...

    Ya, cant wait urs too :D

    Tu la, klu sdh tau tu pattern heartbeat baby tdk cantik bgs jgn buang masa tgu dilation kan.. Better trus minta c- sec. Membahayakan nyawa baby klu tgu lama2 kan. Btw, i think if baby punya heartbeat weak tu bermakna mesti something is wrong, so better dont take risk beranak normal. Ada hubby sya punya kwn, dia beranak normal tp baby dia passed away kerana terlilit tali pusat di leher dia..pnya sedih.. Suda ready2 brg2 baby lg tu.. :(

    Teacher Nadia:
    Ya, thnk God nasib baik sya trus bt decision for c- sec, klu x entah mcm mna lah baby sya tu nnti.. Ee tkt sya mo pikir.. Yg penting now my baby n I safe sdh.. Skrg tgh enjoy motherhood.. :D

  9. wah beremosi betul sa baca ni post owh stelle..erm syukur betul tu ko p c-sect. mcm tu nurse ckp kan terlilit suda tali pusat sama tu bb..syukur betul owh stelle..

  10. tnx God u n bby safe. high risk o kn mo dlver nrmal klo tlilit tali pusat d leher. adui cant imagine. palis2. nasib la everythng ok jg. siok ni baca ur sharing. mcm mo mnta smbngan lg.hehehe.. ba God bless u n fmly sis.

  11. Beaty:
    Ya thnk God beaty..kami selamat... Bikin terkejut ba sya dgr tu nurse ckp..

    Nasib baik ba sya opt for c-sect.. Nasib kami dua2 selamat.. Thnks for reading kio.. Aih mo minta sambungan ka hihi..blh jg..hehehe..smbgn yg recovery punya hihihi

  12. Lscs pula kan ko stella..org ckp tu luka bah yg besa susa mo jaga tu. ambil protein ckup2 ar mummy spya tu luka lawa :)

  13. Hi Stella, finally i get to visit your blog and only to find out tht you have already given birth four months ago hehehe as for me it was 6 months ago. Anyhow, god must have been with you all that while to safe you and your baby and thank god everything went well after that. For now all i can say is "bonne courage" and hope to visit your blog again soon :)

  14. Hi. Berapa cost for c sec or normal delivery at raflesia? Tq


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