A Paint of Life..

Thanks to akemisiegel for tagging me this.

I believe this tag created to getting know better among the bloggers. And here are the questions:-

1. Your blog's title and why you choose it?..

Stella says: Actually i used "Life is Just Like A Story" at first. Then i changed it to "A Paint of Life". The reason i choose the title because my blog include a lot of about self-enrichment stories and  to shows that our journey of life is painted by ourselves but in the other hand granted by GOD. So we must be grateful for we're still breathing happily here on earth.

2. You blog's URL and where you get it?..

Stella says: My blog's URL is http://chardella.blogspot.com.

The name chardella is the combination of my hubby's name and my name.

Richard + Stella =  chard + ella = Chardella.. :)

3. What is your writing's method?..

 Stella says: Well, you can see at the side bar of my blog. Look for categories. I write a lot about self-enrichment followed by other categories such as going places, health, current news, food and etc.

4. What do you think if you saw other's blog are more beautiful and attractive than yours?

Stella says: haha..what a question.. Actually, i never thought about this because each of us have our own ability and specialty.. 

5. When is your blog created?..

Stella says: About 2 years ago..  2 years plus! 

6. Who is the first person knows about your blog and followed?..
Stella says: The 1st person knows about it is my hubby and the 1st follower is haha..forgot already. Maybe the 1st follower is Alv0808. 

7. Please tag 5 bloggers. (those who've been tagged please answer the same questions..)
Stella says: ok here we go..hehe
Imageschaser
Just
Wyne
Annieming
All followers and in my blog list.

Ok that's all about the tagged. Phew..managed to answer all of them..hehe..
That's it for now. I guess now you know more or less the history of my blog hehe..

Till then, take care.

 

25 Hyperactive Wasabers..

As i opened my Facebook this morning,
i saw this list of  25 Hyperactive Wasaber for November 2010's video posted in WSB facebook wall. I am so excited and found out that
i'm in the list.

Thanks WSB for this appreciation.
SO if you are Sabahan and a blogger, you can sign in as WSB member HERE.

Take a look at the full video HERE. :)

 

7 Qualities of a Good Husband

Hello dear friends,

Now i able to post some update here. Been so busy this morning.
December always be a busy month for me.
It become an annual routine.
But, i took it in positive way.
This busy work will not refrain me from thinking
about December celebrations..absolutely not hehe!

Well, yesterday I shared with you the
qualities that a wife should have to
be a good wife. So how about the husbands?..
What qualities that a women looking for a
good husband?..

So i share with you these:-

7 Qualities of a Good Husband

Looking for a potential husband - maybe you're looking to improve the one to whom you're married? Perhaps you're a husband looking to improve yourself? Regardless of your reason, wouldn't the following qualities be a good place to start?

7) Handy - Guys, are you handy - what is handy? Handy is when you take action to solve a problem, handy is when you change a light bulb without complaint, handy is when you take out the garbage (your idea, not hers). Wives like for their husbands to be handy - it's not hard, be part of the solution - not the problem.

 6) Provision Oriented - Please don't get excited - this isn't about the husband making all the money. Its an attitude to help your wife fill in gaps. She can't do everything - so help her! Is she busy with the kids - give up 10 minutes of the ballgame and clean dishes, fold laundry, or whatever. You don't even need to be all that big of a help - you just need to show you're trying.

 5) Humility - Nobody likes an arrogant man - there's no place for it in marriage. Show humility - when you're wrong - admit it and do so with humility. She'll probably be shocked and her reaction might be unpredictable - but inside she'll glow with admiration.

 4) Adaptability - Guys, marriage is an ever changing world and you've got to adapt favorably to those changes or you'll find yourself wondering what you're doing and how you got there. If you look closely at your wife - filtering out years of environmentally induced behavioural changes - you'll see that glowing woman you fell in love with years ago. Let me explain further - your love and feelings toward your wife might not changed since the day both you married. However, your relationship has changed as a necessity to those changes around you. Time constraints, needs of children, financial obligations, etc. each require a level of effort that takes time away from your relationship. No longer do both you have the luxury of hours to spend alone together. You're success as a husband will largely be dependent on your attitude toward the adaptations required by life. Lastly, don't let the tail wag the dog - don't let your feelings toward life's changes affect feelings toward your wife - leave this to your heart.

 3) Sensitivity - You can forget what you learned in high school - most women aren't looking for a husband who never cries. A sensitive husband perceives the needs of his wife and looks to meet them. Sensitivity toward your wife will open doors of communication and intimacy you never thought possible. Try it, get that chip off your shoulder and show her some sensitivity.

2) Faithfulness / Loyalty - Show her you're in it for the long haul (notice I said show her). How can you show someone you're faithful and loyal? Do you follow through with your commitments - however small they might be? Are you honest with your wife? Do you keep her up to date on your activities? Do you include her in your world? She's interested - show her it's not just about you - its about her as well and you'll reap the benefits of her security.

 1) Good Listener - This might be the biggest challenge for husbands. You see, by nature, men are usually productive oriented and women are usually more relational. Men often make the mistake of trying to solve their wife's "problems". She doesn't want you to solve anything - she wants you to listen (really listen) and show her that you truly are interested in what she says. She wants you to feel what she feels and live what she lives. When you learn to truly listen to your wife and keep your mouth shut - your marriage will blossom.

source: EzineArticle

So, wives check this! And husbands, do a self-check .. are you in those criteria?..

Sharing is caring. Indeed this is a good tip to remember, to prolong your marriage life. :)

Till then, have a lovely Wednesday.

 

Holiday Mood, Busy Works

It's 1st December 2010.
I am now in Holiday Mood, but too busy with Works... huh!
Hmm..what to do.. Work is work, have to do it. No choice!

Will update again later..